As a family we should help each other...
Don't blame one another who's fault why someone is missing, be sure every body have enough sleep, rest and eat.
You should check their bloodpressure to avoid fainted.
You should have energy to face your problem.
Try to relax and calm down, cause nothing happen if you fight each other, just do find them as long as you could, always get in touch with friends and other relatives...

I can't imagine putting the blame on a family member. That is not the way to find your loved ones. Everyone must pull together in a time like that. Looking for your loved one is a top priority. Put out fliers or go on the internet. The internet is great because you can reach more people who might spot the person. Go to the area where the person was missing from. Was the person walking home. Is there a main road near by. They like to take off fast. So they like main roads as opposed to city streets.You need to investigate.Check out local motels. Ask if they saw the person. Always have recent pictures to show.

It's happened to me before.

I lost my little sister (when I was younger) and couldn't find her. My mom was soooo - angry. However, she was just lost and not kidnapped, so everything ended up being okay after an hour or two.

Yet the pain is still there.

I don't think most people mean to blame anyone else when something terrible happens. It's just a natural reaction to blame soemone without thinking about what you are saying. Most of the time they don't really mean it.

You are absolutely right.When any mishap happens ,the family members just can not control themselves.They can not just accept the missing of their beloved ones.This is the reason for blaming others.

Blaming one another is no way to deal with someone being missing. I can speak of this first hand as we had a suicide in the family and to this day the father and mother of the son blame each other and hide their resentment for each other under their breath. This is no way to live or handle the stress of any situation.

I believe that when a family experiences something like this that the general reaction is to place blame anywhere but on themselves even if it means each other because it helps them release anger. Not that it makes it excusable it’s just what I think.